tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post115931371796397835..comments2024-03-13T12:44:53.437-05:00Comments on If You Read Only One Blog This Year: Bruce Willis & Farrah FawcettBonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comBlogger34125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159840515083094602006-10-02T20:55:00.000-05:002006-10-02T20:55:00.000-05:00Xinh: LOL That's great. Thanks for sharing that....Xinh: LOL That's great. Thanks for sharing that. I like the fact that anytime someone thinks of proper urinal etiquette, I come to mind.<BR/><BR/>Arlene: I've heard a lot of girls say they like taller guys. I'm glad I'm not short. lol<BR/><BR/>Jen: Cleans up after himself might be the tough one :) But we can be trained. And if the third one is really a problem, you need to cut and run quickly.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159732860496949182006-10-01T15:01:00.000-05:002006-10-01T15:01:00.000-05:00I'll admit it. I do have somewhat of a list. My ...I'll admit it. I do have somewhat of a list. My list includes the following:<BR/><BR/>Respectful of women<BR/>Mature<BR/>Can handle his money so that his 1/2 of the bills are paid.-(read my blog for more on this one)<BR/>Does not expect me to wait on him hand and foot.<BR/>Cleans up after himself.<BR/><BR/>5 things, and honestly...I don't think that they're to hard to achieve.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159718419645004762006-10-01T11:00:00.000-05:002006-10-01T11:00:00.000-05:00I've never had a list...maybe I should have, maybe...I've never had a list...maybe I should have, maybe it would have changed things, but I doubt it. I'd say right now, my #1 would be someone who isn't afraid to commit...as for the trivial things, he just has to be taller than me. I'm not big on looks and such. Be a good, real man, make me laugh, and love me forever. I guess that's my list in a nutshell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159538168284601182006-09-29T08:56:00.000-05:002006-09-29T08:56:00.000-05:00Krista: Haha, I actually thought about you when I ...Krista: Haha, I actually thought about you when I was writing that. I used to not like redheads. And then I met one who was hot. And now I don't discriminate based on hair color. Unless maybe it's like pink or something.<BR/><BR/>Lindsy: I think you should make a list. I thought you did one time. Or maybe that was when you were taking applications for your fall back guy.<BR/><BR/>Tenacious One: I agree. It's those little things that are most important. Good story. Thanks for sharing.<BR/><BR/>Hotpinksox: OK. Different brokes for different folks.<BR/><BR/>Kerry: That's a very nice list. Self-made? So you wouldn't accept someone who inherited his billions? :)<BR/><BR/>Twisted Panties: I think they're OK as a general guide. Some things you should be flexible on. Some things probably not.<BR/><BR/>Sage: I like that idea, too. Things I didn't like about ex-girlfriends. I think I'll work on that.<BR/><BR/>Traveling Chica: Animals always seem to like me. And I think I must have a funny clown-like face or something, because kids usually do, too. <BR/><BR/>Shayna: But I thought I "just knew" like twice already :)<BR/><BR/>Xinh: I know. Someone hasn't had any time to write or blog lately :( I'm planning to bring it back this coming week.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159501023901660332006-09-28T22:37:00.000-05:002006-09-28T22:37:00.000-05:00I never had a listAnd if I had a list I know my li...I never had a list<BR/><BR/>And if I had a list I know my list now would be so different from years ago...<BR/><BR/>I think you just know... when that right girl comes along... you'll just know.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159494273621053342006-09-28T20:44:00.000-05:002006-09-28T20:44:00.000-05:00Bone, getting along with kids and animals is NEVER...Bone, getting along with kids and animals is NEVER a bad thing. :) I don't think anyone will hold it against you anyway. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159488547133587872006-09-28T19:09:00.000-05:002006-09-28T19:09:00.000-05:00gee, as a guy I use to make list (more mental than...gee, as a guy I use to make list (more mental than written, but list no less). they were generally characteristics that I didn't like in ex-girlfriends. Then I fell for someone and threw the list out the window but remember that it had things like enjoy wilderness everytime I take off by myself or a guy friend on a backpacking trip.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159481022080457542006-09-28T17:03:00.000-05:002006-09-28T17:03:00.000-05:00Is that what I've been missing out on when all the...Is that what I've been missing out on when all the other girls ask me to go to the bathroom with them? Good to know I'm not missing much. I'm apparently in the minority in thinking that lists are not a good idea. It just seems like that could cause you to rule out someone great that would bring great things to your life.twisted pantieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00624791834334288606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159480025536070722006-09-28T16:47:00.000-05:002006-09-28T16:47:00.000-05:00I guess I have had a list. I always wanted someone...I guess I have had a list. I always wanted someone that was honest, hard working, reliable, trustworthy, highly educated, active, hot and sexy, sparkling personality, loving, easy going, my best friend and lover.<BR/><BR/>I got him :)<BR/><BR/>There are some other things i'd like to have... but i can work around them. Self-made billionare, etc :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159459258848740962006-09-28T11:00:00.000-05:002006-09-28T11:00:00.000-05:00Because broken noses are HOT! And I realized I dat...Because broken noses are HOT! And I realized I dated 4 guys in 2 years with broken noses. It's not a requirement, it's just something I like, sort like the blonde vs. burnette thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159451730185462462006-09-28T08:55:00.000-05:002006-09-28T08:55:00.000-05:00I don't have a list. MaybeI should think about it,...I don't have a list. MaybeI should think about it, as I don't seem to be doing much better than you! (no offense). Though, there are certain things, as you said, that are definite "must-have's." Mine, as most folks I imagine, probably follow closely with the ones you listed. <BR/><BR/>The only other "must-have" for me is someone that makes me laugh. I gotta have someone that makes me laugh. Because if you can't laugh about and through life - what's left?<BR/><BR/>The rest, the way I see it, will reveal itself in the right time. I guess I'm a romantic that way. I still adhere to the "you'll just know" theory. <BR/><BR/>On a related note, I watched the Barbara Walter's interview with Terri Irwin (widow of Croc Hunter Steve Irwin) last night and the last scene absolutely killed me. She said what she would miss the most was how "fun" Steve was. He taught her that it's ok to play in the rain, splash in the puddles, let the kids get dirty. Don't sweat it. <BR/><BR/>These are the things you don't realize should be on your list. But they are the ones you grow to love the most about someone.Tenacious Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12880372751941397660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159448225814960532006-09-28T07:57:00.000-05:002006-09-28T07:57:00.000-05:00I agree with my roommate. In High School I had a l...I agree with my roommate. In High School I had a list. I later realized that most of the things on the list weren't important to me anymore. For the most part...I have no idea what I want in a mate. <BR/>Maybe I'll make a list and post it on my blog! My friend Grant did that a few years ago. We all made fun of him for posting it on his blog but a couple months later he met a girl and they got married. <BR/>Sorry, this has turned into the longest comment known to man!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159421111411763702006-09-28T00:25:00.000-05:002006-09-28T00:25:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07324057161778622957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159421093664639992006-09-28T00:24:00.000-05:002006-09-28T00:24:00.000-05:00So we now know how you feel about blondes and brun...So we now know how you feel about blondes and brunettes. What about redheads?<BR/><BR/>This post is very interesting because I just had a conversation with a friend today on this very subject. I think I am not a typical girl in that I don't have a list and I don't have my future wedding planned out etc, etc. I can't tell you what my ideal mate is or what he looks like or what kind of job he has. I just figured I would know when I know. So far that hasn't been working out too well for me. haha. But I'm holding on to the hope.Kristahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07324057161778622957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159418044574218602006-09-27T23:34:00.000-05:002006-09-27T23:34:00.000-05:00RedNeckGirl: I think the sooner we let go of the s...RedNeckGirl: I think the sooner we let go of the superficial stuff, the better off we are.<BR/><BR/>Blondie: I think she'd have to meet at least a few of the things on the list. I like the follow your heart advice. Although the heart doesn't always seem to know what's good for it.<BR/><BR/>Hotpinksox: A broken nose? lol Dare I ask why?<BR/><BR/>Sadie: That's an interesting variation on the whole list thing. A relationship list. I like that idea.<BR/><BR/>Dorothy: No, it's Laura. Not Florence :) I like your 60 years question. That's one I shall ponder.<BR/><BR/>Big Man: I think the list naturally gets whittled away with time, but you have to keep a few things on it.<BR/><BR/>Heather B: Look for the new GH versus Days blog. Coming soon! And this time, payback's for real, yo.<BR/><BR/>Carnealian: Oh whatever. I might have believed that rant last year. But I heard thru the blogvine things have been going pretty well for you lately ;-)<BR/><BR/>(Hope I didn't just jinx anything.)<BR/><BR/>Circe: Thanks, dear Circe ;-) Stable. Yes. That's a good one that often gets overlooked, I think.<BR/><BR/>Naj: Wow, that was quite impressive for an 18-year-old. I commented.<BR/><BR/>Traveling Chica: I think I get along well with kids and animals. That's gotta be a good thing, right?Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159412147103344542006-09-27T21:55:00.000-05:002006-09-27T21:55:00.000-05:00I think in some way we all have a mental checklist...<I>I think in some way we all have a mental checklist. But in reality when the right person comes along those checklists get adjusted.</I> Renee, I think that's the perfect point!<BR/><BR/>Bone, gotta love animals. You can tell a lot about a person based on how they treat kids and animals.TChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02487739742081226423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159407284395555782006-09-27T20:34:00.000-05:002006-09-27T20:34:00.000-05:00I found it! Yes, it's obviously written when I wa...I found it! Yes, it's obviously written when I was young, but still fun to look back on nonetheless. You're all invited to take a peak.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17193704445130862523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159401276900895062006-09-27T18:54:00.000-05:002006-09-27T18:54:00.000-05:00Once again, excellent post, dear Bone. Part of me ...Once again, excellent post, dear Bone. Part of me really wishes I had made a list waaaaay back before TBC, but I never did and never have and not sure I would today. If anything it would be more of a mental list, let's see.........trustworthy, stable, responsible, good sense of humor, love of reading, and truly loved me. Yeah, that's a good start.<BR/><BR/>A friend of my sister's actually had a whole list of questions to ask a prospective mate and between No 1 and No 2 Husband, my sister actually had the nerve to read off the list to one of the guys she dated! I was appalled. Oh. My. God! Have a list of qualities or a list of questions if you must, but do NOT whip it out on a date like you are a census taker! Anyway, they didn't 'hit it off' and sans questionaire, she found Number 2 who is far from perfect but I totally adore him.<BR/><BR/>And yes, the qualities will change as one matures so it's good to revise periodically and if possible, keep the shallow crap off it and go for substance and durability.<BR/><BR/>(and Farrah was hot though I prefer dark-headed guys personally) :)<BR/><BR/>hugs, <BR/>circeCircehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01075651862143388644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159381435515057522006-09-27T13:23:00.000-05:002006-09-27T13:23:00.000-05:00Oh yea, had a list. Maybe not on paper, but there...Oh yea, had a list. Maybe not on paper, but there was a list. I think "drop dead gorgeous" was on there. Which in time has certainly changed. <BR/><BR/>Now that I'm quickly approaching the four-oh and having never been proposed to, never having to pick out an engagement ring, nor having one placed on my finger, I've become pretty soured on the that "ideal" person. I don't think he exists, I don't think the relationship I developed in my head over the last 40 years exists either. I think the list thing developed in the same way we do a pro/con list if you're trying to resolve a problem. Regardless, burn the lists. I'm going to go eat worms now.Carnealianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04438541010027037499noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159375950014500532006-09-27T11:52:00.000-05:002006-09-27T11:52:00.000-05:00First on my list: Must not watch Soap Operas and i...First on my list: Must not watch Soap Operas and if he does watch Soap Operas only Days of Our Lives. Period.<BR/><BR/>I think I had a list at some point, maybe. Who knows anymore. I can say that it has changed over the few years that I've been actually dating. But as someone else pointed out, I too enjoy being single. I'm perfectly content doing my own thing and I hardly feel any pressure to get out there and find the perfect person by the end of this week. I suppose that age plays a large part in that or perhaps I find the whole dating process to be tiring. Who the hell knows though.Heather B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07931351971982028473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159374768822491432006-09-27T11:32:00.000-05:002006-09-27T11:32:00.000-05:00All of the older women I know say the same thing. ...All of the older women I know say the same thing. They started out with all these requirements that must be met by a mate, and as the years went by those "must be's" whittled away.<BR/><BR/>I have but two requirements; must be half-way intelligent, and want to go somewhere in their work life. Those come out of bad relationships/dates with women that had no ambition. That's it for me, and that's not really much.The Big Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15536410075828809597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159374668589525012006-09-27T11:31:00.000-05:002006-09-27T11:31:00.000-05:00"The list" is Florence, Bone. Identify Florence, a..."The list" is Florence, Bone. Identify Florence, and you know it's her. <BR/><BR/>I had a list, BH filled it, end of story. He had the same eternal goals and had the same belief on how to get there, strong, self sufficient, funny, appreciator of great humor, emotionally stable- that kind of thing. I have never said things like 6 percent body fat, or looks like so and so. Eyes are important to me, and BH has baby blues like you wouldn't believe. <BR/><BR/>Ask yourself the question, What qualities will the person in the rocking chair next to me in 60 yrs have that will make me love her more that day than the previous one? Is it that she likes to kiss an even numbered amount of kisses?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159373865844521882006-09-27T11:17:00.000-05:002006-09-27T11:17:00.000-05:00I had a list, but not about the man. It was a list...I had a list, but not about the man. It was a list of things that had to be present in the relationship. And it's a good thing I didn't have a "man list," because my husband is completely different from what I thought I wanted... And yet, perfect for me. And our relationship did meet the "relationship list" requirements. Things like honestly, mutual respect, consideration, kindness... I suppose those kinds of things could go on a man list too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159369768634989122006-09-27T10:09:00.000-05:002006-09-27T10:09:00.000-05:00If you read my blog, you know I have a list. My li...If you read my blog, you know I have a list. My list changes all the time. First it was a blonde haired man in sensible shoes with a broken nose. Then it was someone who calls me and doesn't text message all the time. Then it became someone with a hobby that doesn't include drinking, drugs or the TV. Although, mostly my list boils down to mutual love, respect, trust and honesty. Where did my list of qualities I want in a man come from? No S*%$, my mom. She is a very wise woman who thinks if you can pin point what you want in life then you can have it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1159368914852980252006-09-27T09:55:00.000-05:002006-09-27T09:55:00.000-05:00I've never had a list. As you mentioned, my list ...I've never had a list. As you mentioned, my list is mental. I remember the things I want in a man.<BR/><BR/>The list is a tough thing to rule your dating life by. You may have one hundred "must haves" on your list, and a girl will come who knocks your socks off and doesn't match not one item on your list. She then makes that list null and void. Ya know?<BR/><BR/>Follow your heart, Bone... fall in love with whoever you feel like falling in love with. The list won't stop you from dating someone you shouldn't, just as it also won't find you your soulmate.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com