tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post115325093373535462..comments2024-03-13T12:44:53.437-05:00Comments on If You Read Only One Blog This Year: The hurtBonehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153496508374467352006-07-21T10:41:00.000-05:002006-07-21T10:41:00.000-05:00It'll be okay. Just keep going...I feel for ya.It'll be okay. Just keep going...I feel for ya.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153437602328671182006-07-20T18:20:00.000-05:002006-07-20T18:20:00.000-05:00Chickadee: Very nice and thoughtful comment. Than...Chickadee: Very nice and thoughtful comment. Thanks.<BR/><BR/>Lass: We wouldn't have the ability were it not useful for something. I guess.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153411184733492052006-07-20T10:59:00.000-05:002006-07-20T10:59:00.000-05:00I think crying is the best medicine. I know that i...I think crying is the best medicine. I know that it purges my emotions and gives me relief. It's ok to cry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153408205503043552006-07-20T10:10:00.000-05:002006-07-20T10:10:00.000-05:00I hate crying too, though I have found there is re...I hate crying too, though I have found there is relief and exhaustion that follows that makes it easier to sleep. It's kind of like a raging thunderstorm...you hate it and maybe are a little afraid of it while it's going on, but afterward, everything is so peaceful and clean.<BR/><BR/>Remember your strength. As you know, you can find solace in writing and in talking with others.<BR/><BR/>I'm here if you need to talk.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153408058442320282006-07-20T10:07:00.000-05:002006-07-20T10:07:00.000-05:00kKyahgirl: I was thinking something similar. Shou...kKyahgirl: I was thinking something similar. Shouldn't I outgrow this? Thanks for stopping by.<BR/><BR/>G: Thank you. Pia apparently sent me lots of visitors today :)<BR/><BR/>Katie: No, I haven't had any problems with AIM lately.<BR/><BR/>Teresa: Thanks for the nice words, and thanks for visiting.<BR/><BR/>VanillaSkies: Thanks. Part of me was relieved I could still feel that way.<BR/><BR/>Redneck Girl: Yeah. Wasn't that a song, prayin' for daylight? How true.<BR/><BR/>Jen: Oh, cool. I guess you can't improve on some things. I used to tear the corners off mine and make spit wads out of the foam.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153404705994666592006-07-20T09:11:00.000-05:002006-07-20T09:11:00.000-05:00Wonderful post bone. And yes, they do still have ...Wonderful post bone. And yes, they do still have those foam pads that are red on one side and blue on the other. Those things are never going to go out. Best of luck to you.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02099295893423147237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153403862907716672006-07-20T08:57:00.000-05:002006-07-20T08:57:00.000-05:00Great post, definitely hit home with me.....as I'v...Great post, definitely hit home with me.....as I've spent many nights in that situation, praying for daylight....I pack my days with so many tasks that I don't have time to think, so at night when I lay down to sleep, I am alone in the dark and my mind takes over engulfing me with pain and hurt.RedNeckGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11715392856747862792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153383198832976142006-07-20T03:13:00.000-05:002006-07-20T03:13:00.000-05:00Bone...You only get hurt and break your heart if y...Bone...You only get hurt and break your heart if you will allow others to do so. Remember that in each time you stumble and fall, you must get up because the world doesn't end there....I wonder if you believe in God. If you do then, you should pray and lift it all up to HIM to help you. Cuz that's what I did and believe me, God heard my prayers. I'm now whole again! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153367166131433432006-07-19T22:46:00.000-05:002006-07-19T22:46:00.000-05:00Aw! I just popped over here via some other blogs a...Aw! I just popped over here via some other blogs and...wow, I know we can never say that we fully understand how someone else is feeling but I'm sure I've had my own version and it's so painful. This was so beautifully written, which definitely shows how hurt you are. I'm so sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153352592974819032006-07-19T18:43:00.000-05:002006-07-19T18:43:00.000-05:00Yes dear Bone we have many beautiful beaches in Oh...Yes dear Bone we have many beautiful beaches in Ohio.This one was Salt Fork State park in case you want to look it up.I tried to Im you about the Frankenberry but for the past 24 hours I've been getting a message that aim is temporarily unavailable.Have you been having problems with it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153340042870899112006-07-19T15:14:00.000-05:002006-07-19T15:14:00.000-05:00Hi Bone: I've been here before and Pia reminded m...Hi Bone: I've been here before and Pia reminded me why I needed to visit again in her post. This is just beautiful and poignant. And honest. Funny the hurts over time get replaced with hurting for different reasons. Daily reminders of our humanity I guess. Anyway, beautfiul post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153323497949869552006-07-19T10:38:00.000-05:002006-07-19T10:38:00.000-05:00HI Bones, blogger ate my comment ( I think ) so I'...HI Bones, blogger ate my comment ( I think ) so I'll try again. :-)<BR/><BR/>I'm visiting from Pia's place.<BR/><BR/>This post touched me. I was just thinking recently that no matter how smart, grown up, and wise I think I am, I'll still keep getting tossed and pounded by the wave....it seems that hurt is the risk that comes with opening yourself to people/life.Kyahgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04496268340516243071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153291501114224502006-07-19T01:45:00.000-05:002006-07-19T01:45:00.000-05:00Ms. Sizzle: Pia: Finest ever? Do you have any ide...Ms. Sizzle: <BR/><BR/>Pia: Finest ever? Do you have any idea what you're saying? :)<BR/><BR/>Dorothy: What a wonderful well-written comment. I especially liked "because your capacity to appreciate joy just got greater."<BR/><BR/>Thank you.<BR/><BR/>Tenacious One: First time I'd seen the sun come up in awhile.Bonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10096591352278195759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153286074528459322006-07-19T00:14:00.000-05:002006-07-19T00:14:00.000-05:00I find that wine helps. Until daylight comes again...I find that wine helps. Until daylight comes again. Never stop feeling, though. Or you will lose your being. I have to remind myself of this every time. I think it is worth it.<BR/><BR/>But the only real good thing about being wounded is the ice cream. All the ice cream you can get.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153257224501939192006-07-18T16:13:00.000-05:002006-07-18T16:13:00.000-05:00Hurting is growing. Growing accommodates joy as we...Hurting is growing. Growing accommodates joy as well as pain. Refusal to cry<BR/>is rebellion because you already hurt, you just don't want to. So cry, then Sleep, because your capacity to appreciate joy just got greater.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153255151055110622006-07-18T15:39:00.000-05:002006-07-18T15:39:00.000-05:00Bone this is your finest post ever. It is so bril...Bone this is your finest post ever. It is so brilliantly true and starkAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6006953.post-1153253796951705932006-07-18T15:16:00.000-05:002006-07-18T15:16:00.000-05:00i know what you mean about the slowest antitode. w...i know what you mean about the slowest antitode. why is happiness so fleeting and pain so lingering?<BR/><BR/>a good cry might do you some good. you don't have to tell us about it but do it all the same.<BR/><BR/>take care.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com